I had a friend on Facebook ask a question about researching her family. She wanted to know if she did not know the full names and birthdays of her older relatives, could she still have success researching her family roots. DEFINITELY!! This would be the best course of action:
Talk to Your Parents
This is the first step if your parents are still living. They could give you a roundabout age of your grandparents then do the math to calculate the year they were born. Familysearch.org is a free genealogy site. You must create a login in order to see the documents. It’s completely free…no tricks. Look at census records (before 1950) to confirm their age and who they lived with. Checking the census records confirms that you are looking for the correct people. Your parents should show up on these records as long as they were born before 1950. Note on the census their place of birth because this is important.
Look for Marriage Records
Looking at the marriage record for your grandparents can give you additional information. If you have their birthplace and approximate birth year, enter their names into the records search to see if any marriage licenses match for that location. If a record does pop up, it should contain your grandmother’s maiden name (if you didn’t know it already). Most marriage records contain the names of the bride and groom’s parents. If this is the case, now you have your great grandparents’ names!
Family, Associates and Neighbors – the FAN Club
Continue to review the census records of your grandparents living in the households of their parents. The census records should give you information about your great aunts and uncles, their education, their occupations. Also, most children lived in their parents’ neighborhood after marriage so look at the entire census records for other relatives that lived close by.
Death Certificates
I have always said, you can find the living through the dead. Death certificates give you the decedent’s birth place, their exact birthdate (most of the time), decedent’s parents’ names and where they were born and other important information like if the deceased was a veteran, their occupation, informant’s name (this is most likely a relative), their last address and if they were married/divorced/widowed. All this information can lead you to additional records that can help you go back even further.
Next question – what if your grandparents were born in another country? That’s a question for another post. Stay tuned!
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Researching the 1890 Census
As you know from previous newsletters, the census records contains different information every time. The huge gap between 1880 and 1900 censuses frustrates genealogists and family historians because a lof of information cannot be determined, specifically the migration patterns of family members. However, the new categories on this census gave us more socioeconomic information for each family.
The 1900 census included the birth month and year of each member in the household. Additionally, it recorded the number of years a couple had been married (doing the math you could calculate the year of marriage) and the number of children born and the number of children still living for adult women in the household. This census incorporated the economic status of the family – whether the head of household owned or rented their home, whether the home was a house or farm and if it was mortgaged or owned free and clear. An enumerator noted farms and included a farm schedule. Farm schedules were important because they included the value of the property, number of acres, types of crops grown, number of livestock and the name of the owner if the farm was rented.
The month of October has a lot going on – Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Down Syndrome Awareness Month and National Family History Month! In 2001, Senator Orrin Hatch, a Republican Senator for Utah, introduced a bill designating October as Family History Month to encourage people to research their ancestry. “By searching for our roots, we come closer together as a human family.” Try to dedicate some time during this month to do some kind of genealogical research on your family and immortalize it for future generations – in an album, a book or on a family tree site. During October, Family Matters Genealogy, LLC will offer a 10 % discount for Kati and Kubwa services plus a free gift. You must book and pay the 50% deposit before 11:59pm on 10/31/22 in order to receive the discounted services.
The Woman King is True History
I went to see The Women King, starring Viola Davis. It was an excellent movie about women’s empowerment, strength and independence. I knew that Dahomey was a real place because of a book written by Zora Neale Hurston. Situated in Western African in present day Benin (renamed in 1975), it is true that Dahomey was an essential factor in the Atlantic Slave trade with the British until 1852. Dahomey went to war with France in 1892 and in 1894, France defeated them. Afterwards, Dahomey became a colony of France but France did allow the royal families and its administrators to continue to rule the people. We will analyze what are true historical facts from the movie. For those that did not see it…SPOILER ALERT!
The Kingdom of Oyo existed and fought against the Kingdom of Dahomey over the slave trade. Both kingdoms sold captured enemies from neighboring tribes to the British and Portuguese to support their empires.
The King of Dahomey increased their palm oil trade as an economic alternative to the slave trade BUT only after the British prepared to discontinue the practice in its colonies in 1833. The movie reversed this fact.
Nanisca, played by Viola Davis, was a real Agojie but on a smaller, lesser known scale than in the movie.
King Ghezo, same as in the movie, reigned Dahomey from 1818-1858.
Dahomey had a real all-female army called the Agojie warriors. Originally organized as elephant hunters, they progressed to be the king’s guards. The population of men had significantly dropped because Dahomey was at war with other tribes in order to maintain their power in the region. Women had no choice but to fight to protect the kingdom from neighboring villages and tribes.
In the movie, the Agojie took an oath to remain single and childless to be a part of the army. However, the king considered the all the Agojie as his wives and did not allow them to date or marry anyone else. They lived in the palace with the king like in the movie.
Read Barracoon: The Story of the Last “Black Cargo” by Zora Neale Hurston. Cudjo Lewis,a former slave, described his capture by the Agojie of Dahomey from his West African village in 1860. Imprisoned at a slave port in Ouidah (later named The Gate of No Return), he was sold to Americans by King Glele (son of Ghezo) and was illegally smuggled into Alabama on the last American slave ship Clotilda.
Of course, the movie has created controversy because of its “historical inaccuracies;” however, it is a depiction of true historical events with fictional characters. The Woman King is a great story with some historical facts sprinkled in.
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I was gifted an Ancestry DNA test and received the results a few weeks later. I had no experience in organizing a genealogical search, as it seems quite overwhelming. She helped me organize every match, and together, we identified each and every branch possibility on the tree. My challenge was the many similar last names. in my DNA matches, that were not of the same family branch. Tanya guided the search by suggesting and using Ancestry’s website, uploading my DNA to GedMatch, My Heritage, 23 and ME, and to take an additional mtDNA test to align the results with my possible birth mom. She used DNA Painter to explain the centiMorgan complexities and to further map out relatives.
Aside from Tanya’s vast knowledge, it was her determination to move ahead past any obstacles. She was very supportive when emotions got the best of me. We found my Bio parents, within 4 months- a full sister, and half siblings and close relatives. I never in my life would imagine attempting a search without Tanya. Her guidance and knowledge of genealogy and the steps to build a family tree, were the keys to our success. I highly recommend Tanya for any of your genealogical needs. Her professionalism, determination, and perseverance are the key to anyone’s Ancestry search.
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DID YOU KNOW? Mermaids Come in All Colors
There has been an uproar when Disney announced that they were casting Halle Bailey as Ariel in their live-action revival of the Little Mermaid. The controversy stems from many believing that Ariel should remain white because mermaids are white. But…is that really true? Mermaids are mythical creatures, so how does anyone know they are strictly white? Did you know that mermaid stories were more well known in African countries than European countries? Let’s examine the history.
Myth of the Mermaid
Different cultures have depicted mermaids in their folklores and fables. So, who was the first to tell the mermaid story? The legend of Mama Wati dates back six centuries. Mama Wati was a West African mermaid or a water spirit who had long flowing hair and snakes as necklaces. She was notorious for sinking ships, promising fertility and prosperity to anyone who worshiped her and taking a human form with legs and appear in the least likely places.
Other countries had stories about mermaids – the ningyo, Matsya and duyung of Asia, Mama D’Leau of Caribbean stories, and the nommos of the Dogon people from Mali. There have been shrines of mermaids and other ocean deities that lined the west African coastlines from Senegal to Angola, the same coastline where slave ships kidnapped Africans to take to the Caribbean Islands and the Americas.
So why do mermaids have to be white? NO! Does everyone believe Danish writer Hans Christian Andersen created them for his book written in 1837? YES! Could Caucasian writers adapt these stories to make for interesting reading for their audiences? YES! Cultural appropriation happens all the time, especially from elements of African and African American culture.
EDITOR’S NOTE
Thank you for reading my newsletter. I love October for many reasons. It’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month and as a breast cancer survivor, this is the time of year that I raise money for the American Cancer Society. The other reason is because it’s FAMILY HISTORY MONTH!!! This is the time of year that I focus on my own family’s research, either by going through my family trees to update some records or look for more records as they become available on various genealogical sites. I take detailed notes for the book that I will write someday. For my family, I am currently researching my Davis, Teat and Fernandes lines.
Next month, we will celebrate Native American Heritage Month and Veteran’s Day by reviewing military records and Indian census records. If you have any genealogical questions, feel free to comment and I will feature your question in the next issue. Michael Crichton said, “If you don’t know history, you don’t know anything. You are a leaf that doesn’t know it is part of a tree.”
Know and love your family history. Peace, Love and Genealogy.
Last week’s blog post talked about digital photos vs. printed photos but for our final week of Save Your Photos Month, we will plan for the inevitable, death. Parents buy life insurance to pay for their funerals or to make life comfortable for their children. We make a will to distributethe important things in our lives between the ones we love, equally and fairly. We try to take care of our final arrangements, making sure those in charge know what to do. What about the family photo albums, memorabilia and digital pictures after our death? WHAT?!?! You never thought about this? Well, it’s time!
“By Failing to Prepare, You Prepare to Fail”
A very important quote from Benjamin Franklin that can be parlayed into many things in life. If you are the family historian (like me), it is important to make a plan after your demise. Is there someone in the younger generation that will take up the cause? Does someone in the family show an interest in continuing the family research? Is there anyone who cares at all?? That’s what you need to find out NOW. Seek out the current family historian at the next family reunion. Make sure they know your interests in taking over after they have gone. Talk to your children to see who might take on this task because making a plan is the first and most important step. Also make sure your family photos will be passed on after your death.
Make a Plan
If your Auntie/Grandpa/Mom/Dad agree to pass the family history torch to you, make sure they state it CLEARLY in their wills. Please make sure they let their heirs know NOW! We do not want surprises when the end comes and you try to retrieve unsuccessfully what you’ve been promised. I would highly recommend that you ask your relatives to pass it down to you NOW.
Also, have them go through the album with you. Have them tell you stories of the family members in the pictures (make sure you record it as oral history so you can write it down later). Additionally, make sure they go through their phones and computers to transfer any photos they might have stashed there. Encourage them to upload to a cloud service like Google Photos, Dropbox, shared drive, etc. If they are willing, ask them to share the username and passwords with you so you have access to it at all times.
Be Creative
Since natural disasters happen (seems like more often lately), scan all family photo albums and take pictures of any family memorabilia so you will have a digital copy. Upload this to a cloud service just in case. Last but definitely not least, create a book from the photo albums, memorabilia, newspaper articles, etc. for the next family reunion or to pass along after you! Make sure you include everything about yourself – the good, the bad and the ugly – so they know who you truly are. Include your immediate family and their adventures and mishaps. It’s the best gift you can give your future descendants and continue the family forward.
Next month is Family History Month! I am determined to make family historians out of EVERYONE! I’ve got some great stuff to share so stay tuned.
Last week’s blog discussed decluttering photos on our phones. This rolls into this week’s blog of digital photos. The current generation is technology savvy and believe and love anything digital. So where does that leave us old school printed photo people? Are we considered relics because we have several boxes of printed photos? What should we do with the photo albums passed down through the generations? Should we only have digital photos. There is a way to live in both worlds.
Scrapbook Queen
I confess…I’m a scrapbooker! It is a creative obsession I’ve had since I was young (I am 53). Imagine lots of pretty paper, glitter and tchotchkes all over my spare bedroom in my house. Therefore, printed photos are important to me. However, scrapbooking has even moved away from paper and embellishments and has turned to digital scrapbooking (not fun for me). I refuse to adjust! My daughters use social media as their scrapbooks, uploading pictures into albums and deleting them from their phones to save memory. Which method is correct?
Digital vs. Printed
There are several pros and cons for each:
Digital photos require no physical space. The only space it needs is memory on an external hard drive, a laptop, on your phone or a cloud service. Printed photos and scrapbooks require real estate – on a bookcase (like at my mom’s house), on a closet shelf (in my house) or a corner somewhere in the house.
What happens when technology is upgraded? Do you have to worry about transferring all your digital photos to a new hard drive? What if your laptop crashes or a cloud service shuts down? You will still have your photo albums, printed photos and scrapbooks.
Both have an expense attached. Digital photos require hardware (or cloud service. There is a max to the free memory for Google, iCloud or Dropbox. Digital images take up A LOT of memory so thousands of photos will eventually max out and you will need to pay for additional memory to save your photos.
Natural disasters affect both digital and printed photos. A fire, accidental spill or lost/stolen equipment happen so understanding how to protect your photos (syncing your phone to your laptop/tablet, having a fire safe, keeping liquids away from electronic equipment and photos) is very important.
Make sure you preserve your photos for future generation so they know who you are and what you look like. By the way, The Photo Managers events for Save Your Photos Month are great!
For last week’s blog, I organized all my photo boxes which was great! This week, I’ve moved on to organize the pictures on my phone! Smartphones make taking pictures easier than ever. Before them, I had to make a conscience decision to lug my bulky 35mm camera with me to different events. For the times I didn’t realize that I needed a camera, I would run to a store to buy a disposable one. Now, it’s a no brainer – if I have my phone with me, I instantly have a camera as well!
Although the smartphone is great for these impromptu photographic moments, there are issues that come with the digital world. The biggest issue – my photos is stay on my phone! Of course, they get shared on social media. My problem becomes Grandma or my Aunt who aren’t tech savvy. They deserve pictures too! Then there’s the memory issue – photos take up a lot of memory which slows down the other apps. What do we do about this? I scheduled some uninterrupted time to go through my entire photo album. I utilized the process of Delete, Organize, Print, Backup and Share.
Delete Some Pictures
I take about three to five pictures of the same subject, hoping to get the best lighting, pretty scenery or the right facial expression. The problem is I forget to delete the duplicates from my phone. I went through the all photos on my phone to delete all the duplicates, blurry and horribly bad pictures.
Organize
I sorted my pictures into albums based on the event or occasion. As I created albums, I took some time to edit my photos, I cropped images, changed some to black and white, and created some memes!
Print
I love scrapbooking and sending photos to family members and friends. To make sure I captured all the pictures I wanted to print, I created a “To Be Printed” album on my phone. I uploaded photos to my favorite place that prints pictures…Walgreens! I love the Walgreens app and uploading my pictures are easy plus they have sales on printing services! I have used CVS and Walmart to print pictures. A bonus: some services will store your photos indefinitely!
Backup
I downloaded my photos from my phone to my computer, just in case I lose my phone or drop it in water (which I did a long time ago). If you don’t like the download options, you can also upload it to a cloud service like Google Photos, Dropbox, OneDrive or iCloud.
Share Your Pictures
Just like I mailed the hard copy duplicates I had in my photo boxes, I texted and emailed some photos from my phone to family and friends. It started a “conversation” and let people know that I love them and was thinking about them which was a bonus all around.
